1 — The Specific When
8 min readDec 26, 2023
When I was in the shower I had a million ways I could start this, and now, as it is with writing, do I have it? acchhhhh maybe. I do love this photo though. I think that might be a bullet hole, and are those birds on the railing? Where are these stairs going?
It’s the day after my birthday, or as my partner said to me after a wave of morning after transition tears had momentarily subsided, ‘this is your ‘after-birth-day’.